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看看“男不娶五,女不嫁六”是什么意思?老祖宗为何如此讲究?

男婚女嫁,人们很自然就会联想起中国古人一句话,“男大当婚,女大当嫁”,男的到了一定年龄就应该结婚,女的到了一定年龄就应该嫁出去。

When a man marries a woman, people will naturally think of an ancient Chinese saying, "when a man marries, a woman marries." when a man reaches a certain age, he should marry and when a woman reaches a certain age, she should marry.

生活中有着形形色色的人。

There are all kinds of people in life.

更有着各种各样奇葩的毛病,那么碰到哪些人是不适合交往,不能选择作为配偶的人呢?

There are all kinds of strange fault, so encounter who is not suitable for communication, can not choose as a spouse of people?

这是有讲究的。

There's a catch.

中华文化历史悠久,几千年的沉淀,勤劳又智慧的老祖先在日常的生活中,用他们的所经历过的,所走过的,所得到的教训,融汇成了一句句具有教育意义的俗语,一代代的流传下来,让后世子孙明白俗语中的意思,减少往后人生的弯路,坑道。

Chinese culture has a long history for thousands of years of precipitation, diligence and wisdom of the old ancestors in daily life, they have experienced,, through the lessons, environment that shining proverb education significance, has been passed down from generations of, let posterity know colloquial expressions of the mean, less detours in life back, tunnel.

时至今日,许多充满哲理的俗语依旧在代代相传,搜狐网站分享的一个俗语——“男不娶五,女不嫁六”,非常的有指导意义,一起来看看——

Today, many philosophical sayings are still handed down from generation to generation. A saying Shared by sohu website -- "a man will not marry five, a woman will not marry six" is very instructive. Let's have a look

男不娶五

For a man not to marry five

指的是,男人不能娶的五种女人,那么,是哪五种女人呢?

The five types of women that a man can't marry, so what are the five types of women?

一、不检点的女人:不管是古代还是现代,女子对丈夫从一而终的观念一直很坚定,一些朝三暮四,到处留情,给丈夫送绿帽子的女子,往往会受到了世人的指指点点,乃至受人唾弃。

One, the woman that do not behave well: no matter be ancient still be contemporary, the idea that the woman is right husband from a to z all the time very firm, a few chop and change, everywhere spare, the woman that gives husband to send cuckold, often can be pointed at by the common people, be spurned even.

二、不孝顺的女人:孝顺是中华民族的美德,不管是孝顺父母还是婆家,都要一样的心态,也从孝顺这事件,看出一个女子的品行,孝顺的人,往往心地善良,为人和气,品行端正,事事顺遂!

Two, not filial piety woman: filial piety is the virtue of the Chinese nation, whether it is filial parents or in-laws, all want the same mentality, also from the filial piety this event, see a woman's conduct, filial people, often kind-hearted, people and gas, conduct regular, everything is successful!

三、爱花钱的女人:现代一些人的观念是,你负责赚钱养家,我负责貌美如花,动辄几千上万的化妆品、包包,衣服,大手大脚的花钱,全然没有一丝节省的心思,这样的女子,将来嫁为人妇,夫家是会感到担忧的!

Three, love to spend money woman: the modern concept of some people is, you are responsible for the money to support the family, I am responsible for the beauty of flowers, often thousands of thousands of cosmetics, bags, clothes, wasteful spending money, without a trace of the idea of saving, such a woman, the future marry a woman, husband's family will be worried!

四、不讲理的女人:事事以她为中心,得理不饶人,万事都是她对,你错,跟你耍赖,不能有效的沟通,长期以往下去,必然导致二人之间有隔阂,终有一日会爆发。

Four, unreasonable woman: everything take her as the center, get reason not rao person, everything is she right, you wrong, play with you depend on, can't effective of communication, long-term past go on, inevitable result 2 people have estrangement between, one day will erupt eventually.

五、太自恋的女人:自我感觉良好,遇到一点小事,就动不动的说分手,离婚,还常常大言不惭的说,分了,离了,等待娶她的男人可以排几十米开外,没有真心实意的想好好的跟着你过日子!

Five, too narcissistic woman: feel good about themselves, encounter a little matter, on the occasion of breaking up, divorce, also often say, points, from, waiting to marry her man can row dozens of meters away, not really want to live well with you!

女不嫁六,

Women don't marry six,

是指六种不能嫁的男人,哪六种人呢?

Six types of unmarriageable men. Which six types of men?

一、不孝顺的男人:刚才说了,孝顺是一个人最基本的体现,当这个男人都不孝顺自己的亲生父母,你还能指望他对你好?

One, not filial man: just said, filial piety is a person the most basic embodiment, when this man is not filial his own biological parents, you can also expect him to be good to you?

对不?

Right?

不孝顺的人,心态是非常的自私,醒醒吧!

Not filial people, the mentality is very selfish, wake up!

二、太懒惰的男人:老人常说,勤劳才能致富,一个好吃懒做的男人,你能指望他带给你好日子吗?

Two, too lazy man: the old man often said, hard work to get rich, a lazy man, you can count on him to bring you good days?

他自己尚且都活不下去,哪里能给你想要的幸福,对不?

He can't even live on his own. How can he give you the happiness you want, can he?

三、不奋斗的男人:人生在世,不管是为了父母,还是妻儿,或者自己,都要去好好的奋斗才行,给这个家庭带去幸福的日子,当一个男人混吃等死,每天过着混混沌沌时,那还不如孑然一身来的干脆。

Three, don't struggle of man: life in the world, no matter for parents, or wives and children, or oneself, all have to go to a good struggle, bring happiness to the family of the day, when a man mix to eat etc.

四、爱赌博的男人:见过了多少爱赌博的人最后家破人亡,可谓是血的教训,一个资产几百万,上千万的家庭,没几年的功夫,便输的一干二净,可谓是令人瞠目结舌,古语常说,十赌九输,还是醒醒吧!

Four, love gambling man: saw how many love gambling people finally broke up, it may be said is the lesson of blood, a property millions, tens of millions of families, not a few years of kung fu, it may be said to be jaw-drop, the old saying often say, ten wager nine lose, or wake up!

五、太花心的男人:朝三暮四,拈花惹草,这样的人,心性永远改不了,今天对你有多忠心,明天就能对别的女人多忠心,因此,选择的伴侣,不管是男的,还是女的,都要思虑再三,慎重选择。

Five, too flower heart of man: morning and night four, play the field, such of person, heart sex forever change not, today have much loyalty to you, tomorrow ability to other woman much loyalty, therefore, choice of companion, no matter be male, still female, all want to think twice, careful choice.

六、窝囊废的男人:你确定要跟着一个窝囊的男人过一生?

Loser man: are you sure you want to live your life with a loser man?

哪怕他会在坏人面前弃你逃跑?

Even if he abandons you in front of bad people?

这个还是值得深思的!

This is worth pondering!

好了,以上便是俗话所涵盖的大概意思了,不知道大家看了之后是不是感觉老祖宗留下的俗语真的是讲究,这些俗语是不是说的特别对呢?

Well, the above is the general meaning of the common saying is covered, I do not know after you see is not the feeling that the ancestors left the common saying is really pay attention to, these common saying is not said particularly right?

这几种男女可真真是娶不得、嫁不得,说小了会耽误自己的青春和时光,说大了就是毁掉了自己的一生了!

These kinds of men and women can really marry not, marry not, said small will delay their youth and time, said big is to destroy their life!


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